I know, I know…I haven't posted in a while. I will spare you my feeble excuses.
I wouldn't normally try to cheat by recycling old posts. But I am proud to say that the piece I wrote way back in April, "Cougars Bite", criticizing the whole "Cougar" phenomenon, was frankly ahead of its time. And it's now more relevant than ever.
The
bad news is, since I wrote that blog, the Cougar trend has only
grown. There are more Cougar-themed shows and movies than ever. ABC's
"Cougar Town",
starring Courteney Cox, premiered this week. I tried to watch it – I've gotta keep up on this Cougar stuff – but it was so excruciatingly horrible, I could hardly sit through even fifteen minutes (poor Courteney…one minute,
you're a cute, young "Friend", and the next thing you know, you're a
nasty, old Cougar).
What is it about this "Cougar" thing that has caused it to catch on with such a vengeance? This insidious label has clawed its way into the vernacular and taken hold – and I fear it may be here to stay.
The good news is, I'm suddenly hearing more and more anti-Cougar sentiment being expressed by women.
This month's issue of MORE magazine features an article by Candace Bushnell titled "Attack of the Cougars". In it, she expresses a lot of the same sentiments I have (except she's rich and famous and gets published in MORE magazine).
In addition, I just came across a piece called "Don't Call Me a Cougar" posted on
Open Salon. The outpouring of comments that followed this blog would seem to indicate there is a growing attitude among women that we're mad as hell
about this ugly, sexist label and we're not gonna take it anymore.
I sure hope that's true. Because this whole Cougar thing is getting really old.
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